French novelist and playwright (1799-1850)
By remaining unmarried, a creature of the female sex becomes void of meaning; selfish and cold, she creates repulsion.
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The Vicar of Tours
For want of exercising in nature’s own way the activity bestowed upon women, and yet impelled to spend it in some way or other, Mademoiselle Gamard had acquired the habit of using it in petty intrigues, provincial cabals, and those self-seeking schemes which occupy, sooner or later, the lives of all old maids.
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The Vicar of Tours
How hungry one's heart gets!
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Letters of Two Brides
Man is the minister of Nature, and society engrafts itself upon her.
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Physiology of Marriage
The caresses over which love presides are always pure.
HONORÉ DE BALZAC
Physiology of Marriage
Time is their tyrant: it fails them, it escapes them; they can neither expand it nor cut it short.
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The Girl with the Golden Eyes
We may note within ourselves many a long struggle the end of which is one of our own actions--struggles which are, as it were, the reverse side of humanity. This reverse side belongs to God; the obverse side to men.
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Seraphita
A husband and wife found themselves in love with each other for the first time after twenty-seven years of marriage.
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Physiology of Marriage
His life flowed soundless as the sands of an hour-glass.
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Gobseck
It is the mark of a great man that he puts to flight all ordinary calculations.
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Letters of Two Brides
Seen from a distance, Raoul Nathan was a very fine meteor. Fashion accepted his ways and his appearance. His borrowed republicanism gave him, for the time being, that Jansenist harshness assumed by the defenders of the popular cause, while they inwardly scoff at it--a quality not without charm in the eyes of women.
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A Daughter of Eve
The married woman who is the most chaste may be also the most voluptuous.
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Physiology of Marriage
What is motherhood save Nature in her most gladsome mood?
HONORE DE BALZAC
Letters of Two Brides
Wisdom is the understanding of celestial things to which the Spirit is brought by Love.
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Seraphita
A man, like many another, of complex nature, he was easily fascinated by the comfort of luxury, without which he could hardly have lived; and, in the same way, he clung to the social distinctions which his principles contemned. Thus his theories as an artist, a thinker, and a poet were in frequent antagonism with his tastes, his feelings, and his habits as a man of rank and wealth; but he comforted himself for his inconsistencies by recognizing them in many Parisians, like himself liberal by policy and aristocrats by nature.
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Gambara
Love consists almost always in conversation. There are few things inexhaustible in a lover: goodness, gracefulness and delicacy. To feel everything, to divine everything, to anticipate everything; to reproach without bringing affliction upon a tender heart; to make a present without pride; to double the value of a certain action by the way in which it is done; to flatter rather by actions than by words; to make oneself understood rather than to produce a vivid impression; to touch without striking; to make a look and the sound of the voice produce the effect of a caress; never to produce embarrassment; to amuse without offending good taste; always to touch the heart; to speak to the soul—this is all that women ask. They will abandon all the delights of all the nights of Messalina, if only they may live with a being who will yield them those caresses of the soul, for which they are so eager, and which cost nothing to men if only they have a little consideration.
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Physiology of Marriage
Marriage must incessantly contend with a monster that devours everything: familiarity.
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attributed, And I Quote
My further advice on your relations to women is based upon that other motto of chivalry, "Serve all, love one."
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The Lily of the Valley
Our heart is a treasury; if you pour out all its wealth at once, you are bankrupt.
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Père Goriot
The passing joys of earthly love are gleams which reveal to certain souls the coming of joys more durable; just as the discovery of a single law of nature leads certain privileged beings to a conception of the system of the universe.
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Seraphita